The Eternal Measureless Moment Sparkles in the Infinite Orgasm of Love

Orgasmic RoyaltySix months ago the words "The Eternal Measureless Moment Sparkles in the Infinite Orgasm of Lov ... http://bit.ly/UfUO65

Christ, Closure and the Crazy Callousness of Christmas

Christ, Closure and the Crazy Callousness of ChristmasWe have viewed life from the extreme while living in the ... http://bit.ly/QQK6pd

Intimate Exposure: A Delicate Condition

Intimate ExposureTrue stories of love need a depth of sharing what hides inside the misty world of fanciful wis ... http://bit.ly/SaoWAh

Sexual Surrogate: A Prostitutes' Mask

The Sessions: Movie Review by Rod and Anita A Prostitute's MaskTHE SESSIONS is a love story that shines a g ... http://bit.ly/TCgzPS

Attracted by Difference. United by Sameness.

“Attracted by our sexual difference we are forever united by our ever-evolving sameness.” Rod Anita The Sa ... http://bit.ly/Wm8RKz

The Anger Games - Part 3 - continued from August 2nd

Tears Have No Gender. Rite of Passage“It’s enough to make a grown man cry.” I first heard that line i ... http://bit.ly/P8iR4g

Our House is Buying another Round for Sailor

I am, as you see, obsessed. SailorThe cage beside my desk is gone. The ceiling-high Corn Plant’s draped l ... http://bit.ly/Ogb0Vg

Let Us Buy You a Round for Our Sailor

SailorThree years ago today, a tiny bird flew in through the open patio doors of our 22nd floor apartment. She ... http://bit.ly/QoarVC

Let Us Buy You a Round for Our Sailor

SailorThree years ago today, a tiny bird flew in through the open patio doors of our 22nd floor apartment. She ... http://bit.ly/Qo9i0e

The Anger Games: Part 2

The Walk Away Birth of DesireShe says. “We never fight anymore. I understand him. He needs time with his ... http://bit.ly/OMObrB

The Anger Games

The Communication Trail from anger to the afterglow of orgasm is a private pathway that each couple must carve toge ... http://bit.ly/NZOWho

Shamelessly Fantasizing

Star CollectorQ: “I have recently read Fifty Shades of Grey by E. L. James and it made me feel like a blushin ... http://bit.ly/NEwSX3

Sex: A Loving Act

Q: A significant amount of negative energy surrounds the term “sex” in today’s society, notably due to its as ... http://bit.ly/Mp6V1h

Anal Sex: Nature’s Magnificent Equalizer

Ladies and gentlemen, let us all raise our butts in salutation to equality. Finally, there is no gender conflict. T ... http://bit.ly/KOBj0L

Dear Rod and Anita, First I would like to say that I absolutely love your blog! The perspective which you two amazing people provide in sharing your experiences has given me a great deal of strength in coming to terms with who I truly am. I am 27 and have been married for 3 years to my wife who is my greatest friend in the entire world. I have had an idea since I was in high school that I was bisexual or gay, but due to the conservative nature of my upbringing, I never in a million years would have had the opportunity to act on these thoughts or desires and to this day have not even so much as kissed another man. Last summer while studying abroad by myself I finally allowed myself to admit that I was bisexual. It was an incredible moment. I told my wife once I returned home and after the initial shock, she was incredibly supportive. I have now realized that I am not bisexual, but rather, am gay. I've talked about this many times with my wife, who has continued to offer her unrelenting support and love. I can honestly say that she is the only woman in the world that I am sexually attracted to, and believe me, I've watched DVDs, searched the Internet, and even taken many opportunities to look at beautiful women to see how I feel and I'd there is any sexual attraction whatsoever, and there is none lol. I greatly enjoy everything about the life that my wife and I have together. We have great chemistry sexually, and I am and will forever remain faithful to her. I have been finding myself since revealing that I am gay, noticing so many more men, and it's like a light bulb has been turned on and everything going through my mind says...you are gay...embrace it. I have also known since I was a young boy that I have an incredibly feminine side and have so many times felt utterly helpless because I've always felt like I'm trapped in a man’s body when on the inside I am a woman. I don't plan on having a sex change, but I find myself wanting to explore this side of myself to a much greater extent. I've never tried on women's clothing or anything but it's feeling like a desire that can't continue to go unfulfilled. Being so happily married to the love of my life in a completely monogamous relationship is the greatest gift I could've ever asked for, that being said, do you two have any advice as to how I can continue to be the best husband that I can be while still embracing my true self? Thank you both so much for your time, I greatly appreciate it. ... Lovinglife

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There is Magic in Difference When That Difference is Shared

Dear Rod and Anita,First I would like to say that I absolutely love your blog! The perspective which you two amaz ... http://bit.ly/Mx1mYZ

R Advice

Q: Cyndi’s dilemma: My formerly gregarious mother evaporated into a whisper when I was twelve. She was only 43 when, almost overnight, she changed from a vibrant, healthy young mother into a stooped grandmother-like old lady. She spent all her time in bed or lounging in front of the TV. The only time she left home was to visit her doctor. After Mom died, at 48, my Dad’s sister said it was menopause that killed her. I am 42 and terrified because I feel as if impending menopause will drag me into the same spiral that killed my mother. My doctor keeps saying I have nothing wrong with me but says I must change my attitude or I will make myself sick. My sex drive is high but I worry it will disappear. A friend told me how you advocate sex as a tool to manage menopause. I desperately need reassurance.

A: Dear Cyndi,I suspect that your mother did not discuss sexual issues with you and you learned, as many of us, ... http://bit.ly/L4UZfQ

Menopausal Dilema

Cyndi’s dilemma:My formerly gregarious mother evaporated into a whisper when I was twelve. She was only 43 wh ... http://bit.ly/KBa23K

Menopausal Dilemma

Cyndi’s dilemma:My formerly gregarious mother evaporated into a whisper when I was twelve. She was only 43 wh ... http://bit.ly/KOsaFW

Sexual Maturity is a Lifetime Reach Beyond Grasp

This blog is dedicated to our mature readers: those women and men who understand ... http://bit.ly/KCbySr

Whores in a Cage: The Imprisonment of Sexuality

Our Gilded CageFinches nest on our balcony. Crows and gulls make their homes in ... http://bit.ly/I6kHlP

Blossoming Boomers: A Sexual Rebirthing

TransformationRod’s Breath: Breathing in the blossoms, I walked through sixty ... http://bit.ly/Hz7VqV

Sexual Surrogate: a Masked Whore

The Whore's MasksWe hovered like two bears around a nest of killer-bees, starve ... http://bit.ly/GHHTHR

Sexual Dereliction Verses Sexual Addiction

During ten-years of servicing and documenting the sexual needs of couples, men a ... http://bit.ly/FOn5v3

Stereotyping Sexuality

Stereotyping sexuality promotes separation as it rationalizes immaturity. ... http://bit.ly/wLrSJN

Sexual Truth Is Far More Stimulating Than Fiction

Gray With LoveSexual truth is far more stimulating than fiction. Our autobiogra ... http://bit.ly/y5GE9P

Sex Toys

To me the idea of Mechanical Sex is Cold. From Sarahs question Feb. 21, 2012 ... http://bit.ly/yasghF

Sexual Healing – Part 3 – The Immorality of Conservatism

Continued from No-name the Masked Masochist . Lights of ChangeTake h ... http://bit.ly/wFd2sR

Valentine’s Day

Love IsNever is a better time for true love’s laughter to soar on wings of fr ... http://bit.ly/zbdYnj

Sexual Healing – Part 2 – The Immorality of Conservatism

Masked HeartWe made a decision before we wrote the first manuscript for Love I ... http://bit.ly/ybcKWN

Sexual Healing

Fantasy ProtectorsFrom her studio in San Francisco, Betty Louise used the above ... http://bit.ly/xFUous

The Dirt on Diets: Part 3

Our diet fuels the flames of life; it is not an imposed deflection of desires. ... http://bit.ly/ztz1TM

The Dirt on Diets: Part 2

Mists of TimeAfter five days the bloat is gone: the fluid our bodies held insid ... http://bit.ly/ypMbuo

The Dirt on Diets

Mists of TimeThere is only one word to describe how we feel this morning: Dirty ... http://bit.ly/zOTNb3